I’m bi and trans, and I’ve only ever dated other bi’s. I know that there are plenty of gay and straight people who date trans people, but I know that I would always be worried that I’m inadequate. Do/did you have that problem? How did you get over it?

Posted on 6 February 2011 by Not Aiden — 1 Comment ↓

This is amusing to me because I actually have the *opposite* problem. I have problems dating bi/pan guys because I’m always worried they’ll see me as a girl or something ‘in between’.

So…I guess I don’t really have any advice for you. My issue with bi/pan guys has gotten better since I started passing better and became more comfortable with myself. That’s about it.

Ask me anything

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ShipofFools on 12 February 2011 at 1439 said:

I dont like to date bi people for the same reason, NA. It’s interesting that there is the other way around too.
I wonder if that says something about our respective psychologies?

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