These are always a bit fun and I’m working on some stuff that takes a bit more thought so I need a break.
Do trans guys like straight girls better than bi girls?
Hell if I know, I’m not into girls at all.Â I can say that I was really uncomfortable dating bi guys early in transition.Â Not for the usual “omg, he’s going to cheat on me” bullshit reasons, but because I was always terrified they’d see me as more girl than guy or something in between.Â It was very much my own insecurity and I’ve slowly gotten better about it as I’ve transitioned.Â Other guys didn’t care or even sought out bi partners so they wouldn’t have to deal with the body issues that come up when a straight girl/gay guy dates a trans guy.Â I’m sure if you look you’ll find a few trans guys who are actively biphobic as well as ones who are bi themselves.Â Like everything else, it’s all down to the individual.
“gay men are misogynists”
Oh come on.Â That’s like saying “straight women are homophobes”.Â Some gay men are misogynists, most aren’t.Â The whole “gay men hate women” idea is so 90s.
“bob marley on the kenyan internet”
o.OÂ WTF?Â How’d you even get here?
Can FtMs like men?
Yes.Â I do.Â Many of the guys who read this do.Â This isn’t 1970, there are no longer the same expectations that there used to be.Â You can thank Lou Sullivan for that.
“not trans enough ftm”
Yeah, I don’t think I know a single trans guy who hasn’t felt that way at some point. It seems to be something of a rite of passage, especially in areas where there’s only one way to be a “real” trans guy. I wouldn’t worry about it too much, some people (including doctors and therapists) are just assholes. If transition makes you happy then go for it. You’re the only one who has to live in your body.
Do transmen menstruate?
Some. Depends on the guy and how his medical treatment (if he’s interested in any) is going.