As more people begin to stumble upon this blog I feel that I should warn you all of something.
Most of the trans* community does not like me.Â Actually, the vast majority openly hate me.Â I am NOT the best representative of your average transman.Â In fact, I’m probably the WORST representation you could possibly find.Â In many ways I think this is an advantage, but if what you’re looking for is an accurate portrayal of most transguys then you’re in the wrong place.
If you’re looking for a transperson who has a good working relationship with other transpeople then you should probably leave.Â I do have friends who also happen to be trans, but they’re few and far between.Â More often than not they’re transwomen.Â When I interact with other transpeople online it is usually to argue.Â In person I get along with people better, but I still prefer to avoid trans-specific events if I can help it.
If you are looking for a transperson who will always be out as trans then you should look somewhere else.Â Being trans is not the most important part of my being.Â Being trans is a medical affliction that I happen to have.Â I am no more proud of my status as a transexual than I am proud of being mildly dyslexic.
If you are looking for a transperson who is not afraid to offend other transpeople then I guess you’ve come to the right place.Â I don’t often mean to offend anyone, but that’s how it usually ends up.Â I will not apologise for feeling differently from other transpeople.Â I will not apologise for becoming so infuriated with certain segments of the community that I feel the need to break away completely.Â I will ocassionally apologise for lashing out in a way that is not constructive.
Now you know what you’re getting into.Â If you want to stick around, awesome.Â If you don’t, there are a ton of other trans blogs on the internet.