As more people begin to stumble upon this blog I feel that I should warn you all of something.

Most of the trans* community does not like me.  Actually, the vast majority openly hate me.  I am NOT the best representative of your average transman.  In fact, I’m probably the WORST representation you could possibly find.  In many ways I think this is an advantage, but if what you’re looking for is an accurate portrayal of most transguys then you’re in the wrong place.

If you’re looking for a transperson who has a good working relationship with other transpeople then you should probably leave.  I do have friends who also happen to be trans, but they’re few and far between.  More often than not they’re transwomen.  When I interact with other transpeople online it is usually to argue.  In person I get along with people better, but I still prefer to avoid trans-specific events if I can help it.

If you are looking for a transperson who will always be out as trans then you should look somewhere else.  Being trans is not the most important part of my being.  Being trans is a medical affliction that I happen to have.  I am no more proud of my status as a transexual than I am proud of being mildly dyslexic.

If you are looking for a transperson who is not afraid to offend other transpeople then I guess you’ve come to the right place.  I don’t often mean to offend anyone, but that’s how it usually ends up.  I will not apologise for feeling differently from other transpeople.  I will not apologise for becoming so infuriated with certain segments of the community that I feel the need to break away completely.  I will ocassionally apologise for lashing out in a way that is not constructive.

Now you know what you’re getting into.  If you want to stick around, awesome.  If you don’t, there are a ton of other trans blogs on the internet.