I have been socially transitioned since about age 12. I didn’t formally come out until I was 20, but I have exactly one friend who considered me a “girl” as a child. He was my only straight friend and had a crush on me that lasted…well, until I came out. The early social transition means [...]
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Why hello there insecurity, been a while since I’ve seen you.
Posted September 10th, 2009 by notaiden | 1 CommentWell this could be interesting…
Posted September 4th, 2009 by notaiden | 3 CommentsI may be getting a new roommate. Friend is going through a rough patch and needs a place to stay and while I’m broke, I’m not so broke that I’m willing to let someone be homeless when I have a perfectly comfortable couch. However, this friend does not know I’m trans. Very few people do [...]
Trans Children
Posted August 31st, 2009 by notaiden | 5 CommentsOne issue that is both important and frustrating to me is what to do with children who show “cross gender behaviour”. For example, little Timmy is five years old. He wants to play with dolls, wear dresses, and keep his hair long. That may be all or he may go even further and insist that [...]
Parents: Why we’re way too hard on them
Posted October 12th, 2008 by notaiden | 9 CommentsSo I’ve found my biggest issue with transpeople is how we react to our parents. There are a million other things that also drive me nuts (particularly when it comes to transmen), but the parents issue is one that always grinds on me more than the others. It’s this horrible thing where we seem to [...]