I already did one of these for the women, but apparently it needs spelled out for the gay men as well because I just got fifteen hits in one day for this question. Seriously lads, liking a transguy is still liking a guy. The lack of a penis irritates me just as much as it [...]
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For the Non-Trans Gay Men: Liking a Trans Guy Does NOT Make You Straight
Posted November 23rd, 2009 by notaiden | 23 CommentsDisclosure: When, Where, Why, and How
Posted September 11th, 2009 by notaiden | 2 CommentsIf any of you follow my Tumblr log you’ll know that I posted a FML post about a woman who’s husband didn’t disclose his trans history until after the wedding. If you don’t follow the Tumblr log, but have read the last post in here you’ll know that I’m having some issues with an intense [...]
Why hello there insecurity, been a while since I’ve seen you.
Posted September 10th, 2009 by notaiden | 1 CommentI have been socially transitioned since about age 12. I didn’t formally come out until I was 20, but I have exactly one friend who considered me a “girl” as a child. He was my only straight friend and had a crush on me that lasted…well, until I came out. The early social transition means [...]
Well this could be interesting…
Posted September 4th, 2009 by notaiden | 3 CommentsI may be getting a new roommate. Friend is going through a rough patch and needs a place to stay and while I’m broke, I’m not so broke that I’m willing to let someone be homeless when I have a perfectly comfortable couch. However, this friend does not know I’m trans. Very few people do [...]
FAQ: Gay Men and Gay FtMs
Posted August 26th, 2009 by notaiden | 59 CommentsUpdate 02/01/12: You can view the updated version of this here. Update 28/12/11: I’m turning off comments on this post because it is in serious need of an update and clarification. Life has changed quite a bit in the last two years and the growing awareness of trans men has impacted that. When I finish [...]